Joy and the Boys

Happy 7 weeks sweet boy

2010-09-15T21:55:00.003-04:00

Joshua spent his 7 week milestone with a tummyache. Poor baby has a few issues with digestion. So instead of a good nap, he stays up in the afternoon, with a few scattered cat naps here and there. He then gives us 9 solid hours at night. I'll take the sleep:) Notice he is sitting in the Bumbo seat. Such a big boy! Joshua has pretty good head control for his age. I love you Joshua!

cat napping in the swing

Updated pictures

2010-09-12T16:28:00.006-04:00

Some pictures of my sweet boys...I can't believe Joshua is nearly 7 weeks old already! God has blessed us tremendously.

Cameron and Joshua
One month old!

Poppy and sweet baby
1 month here too

So big! 11lb 3 oz

Mommy and her boys

The Bruza men

Six weeks old.
Out for a walk

Awake more and
more!

Nathan's 1st day of
4yr old preschool

Doing a science experiment.

Thanks Uncle Philip and

Aunt Katie for the fun book!

Welcome Adam Andrew

2010-08-25T14:45:00.003-04:00

We have another new little one in our family! Introducing sweet baby Adam Andrew. He is my sister Jill's baby. Born August 24th, 7lb 3oz, and 19in long. He looks like his daddy. Congratulations to Jill and Kenneth on their new blessing!

Adam Andrew

The new family

Morning romp

2010-08-19T12:47:00.004-04:00

Housework you will have to wait, I am going to post while all is quiet at our house! I'm sure those of you with preschoolers can relate. So this morning I kicked the boys out to play. It has been so hot recently that they only play for about 15 minutes before coming inside. And if you know my boys, it really must be hot since they would live outside! So this morning it had rained and cooled things off a bit. Nathan was concerned about the wet grass (he has learned Mommy doesn't appreciate it when he gets wet:) I told him it was ok today and please get outside. Here is what was waiting for me on the porch...

I guess I asked for it!

Notice the humidity,

my lens is fogged up.

Cameron copies his big bro

all the time.

Dirty boy!

Nate wouldn't hold still for a

head shot, so I settled for his feet.

I carried the boys directly to the shower at 10am. Hope your day is as wild as mine! (A good wild!) Kids are so funny, unpredictable, and able to run mommy through emotions of anger to joy almost instantaneously. Thank You Lord for our children. You teach me so much through them!

Pictures

2010-08-18T21:27:00.006-04:00

Daddy riding the waves with his boys.
Joshua stayed inside for his first beach
trip since he was only 3 days old!

Cowboy Nathan

Campfire with Poppy

Can you believe they slept in
the tent all night!?! Poor Poppy!

Nate's Birthday at Chico's with
Grammy and Poppy a week early.

First family photo with Joshua.

Grammy, Poppy, and the grands.

Gumball machine
birthday cake.

Birthday Boy!

Joshua 8 days old.

First sponge bath.

11 days old.

Sweet baby...11 days.

Joshua again...

Yummy, Cam?

Still 11 days old.

Nate's actual birthday.
We went swimming at
Aunt Mary Ellen's and
the boys were wiped out!

Birthday celebration
#2! Dirt pudding...yum!

Woody!

Mommy time...19 days old.

More mommy time...

...mommy time continues...

Daddy time with sweet baby.

Getting so big!

Ready to ride.

Brotherly love...poor Joshua.

Introducing Joshua Ryan Bruza!

2010-07-29T20:57:00.003-04:00

Joshua Ryan 8lb 8oz 20 in

We are very happy to finally meet our new little boy. He is precious. At 8lb 8oz, he is the biggest baby so far. He has a great appetite too!

The boys are enamored with this new little fella. "Hugs" were given a little rough...we had to keep emphasizing how fragile baby Joshua was.

Minutes after Joshua made his appearance.

Chad's parents are with us for the next week. We are having a great visit and they are a huge help. We are blessed to have a wonderful family.

The Boys

2010-07-11T21:44:00.005-04:00

Here are some tidbits about the boys...

The picture is of Nathan, Mommy, and Daddy's date to see Toy Story 3. It was a cute movie. Nate did great. He enjoyed every minute and sat still! Buzz Lightyear came with us, Chad joked that Nate reminded him of a Trekkie:)

Kids say some of the funniest things. These days Cameron has a huge southern accent, words with 2 syllables have 3 when he says them. I should get some video of him talking...it will make you laugh.

The other day I heard Nathan say to Cameron, "I am going to suck your blood Cameron!" I wasn't happy to hear this and I let Nathan know. He then tells me he is being a tick. Chad was bitten by a tick recently and Nathan caught on that ticks suck blood. Ha ha. I thought one of his friends had exposed him to vampires or something.

Nate also scared his mama by sneaking off his water wings at the pool when I wasn't looking. He stayed in the shallow end, thankfully. Needless to say, he was in big trouble for that stunt. He can barely touch so when I raised my voice for him to get out of the water this minute, he bounced to the stairs with his head barely above the water.

One more Nathan moment...Cameron was fussing on the way home from church. Both boys had been warned about their attitudes at this point. So Nathan says to Cameron, "Cameron! Don't have a stinky attitude like me!" Wow, that's honest.

On another note, we don't have anymore clues for this new baby's name. Sorry. We were going to post one each week, but ran out. Either way I've talked to some of you and you all seem to have a pretty good idea of what you think his name will be.

This post is a bit rambling, sorry about that. We sure are ready to meet the newest Bruza baby. Hope he comes soon! Until next time...have a great week!

Compare and Contrast

2010-06-27T13:15:00.006-04:00

May 23.....................June 27

Baby has grown a bit! Only 4 weeks and change to go. We are very excited to meet this little fellow.

Pictures

2010-06-22T21:23:00.009-04:00

Things have been happening at our house! We have painted the entire house since Thanksgiving and spruced up the bedrooms. Here is our progress. I also added a few of the boys (couldn't resist!)

Living room from front door.

Living room view from hall.

We have put the boys together
in a Thomas themed all boy room!

Notice no guard rails!

I enjoyed putting up the

Thomas appliques. Chad's mom

made the curtains! They are

darling.

Cameron still loves the crib.

I'm not about to disturb a

good thing.

New baby's room.

Notice the blank wall space...

his white letters and two floating

shelves will be on this wall.

I'll have a small table and lamp

next to the rocking chair.

Our new master bedroom.

I think the paint color turned

out pretty good.

Chad has done so much lately,

he even hung curtains. Thanks

honey!

End of year Awana party. Cam

wasn't involved but he joined

in like one of the kids anyway!

Notice Nathan in the helmet.

Cameron loves hats!

Nathan and Mrs Lisa.

Preschool graduation.

Singing "King of the

Jungle". The kids

were so cute, especially

Nate! (But I may be a

little biased:)

Clue #5

2010-06-20T22:19:00.003-04:00

Here is the next clue, have you narrowed it down yet? I think its pretty easy...but then again I know the answer! Have a great week. Oh, and happy Father's Day!

"Moses and Jesus - I've seen both face to face;
A great man of God, and the Author of grace."

Clue #4 and other tidbits

2010-06-15T20:16:00.004-04:00

We are almost ready for this new little one's arrival. I have been finishing up a few odds and ends of his room today. A couple more details and we should be ready. I'm feeling great ( a little big...) but overall this pregnancy has been wonderful. Pictures of our progress are forthcoming!

Nathan is super excited about his Grammy coming in a few weeks. He talks about it all the time and already has plans for when Poppy and Grammy come. He wants to go to Chico's for his birthday dinner, swim, and fish. We are also going to try to go to the beach if everything works out-ie, this little one arriving on time:)

Here is clue #4 for the newest Bruza Boy's name:

A book in the Bible
And my sweet name
Share a connection,
They are the same!

Clue #3

2010-06-06T19:59:00.003-04:00

So, have you all had time to think? I know the clues have been vague, but they will get more specific by the week. In fact, I know most of you will have figured it out before he arrives. Happy hunting!

I'm found in the Bible

A great leader to all;

Good with the sword

My faith is not small.

One in a dozen,

But part of a pair.

Born to lead,

And seek God in prayer.

Clue #2

2010-05-30T21:11:00.004-04:00

Clue #2 in our baby name game is here.

"Good with the sword and respected by most
I led by example and not one to boast."

Have a good Memorial Day!

From Baby

2010-05-23T13:32:00.005-04:00

Hello everyone! Here I am! As you can see I'm still a bit small and not yet ready to come out into the big, big world. Mama would say I'm growing bigger everyday and exercise all the time. So just be patient, I'll be here soon. Since my name is top secret, lets play a game! Each week I'll have a clue for you. Here is clue #1:

"My name is strong and full of meaning.

You can find me in God's Word

And on His promises leaning."

More clues to come

Just wait and see.
That's all for now

From boy number three!

Love,

Baby

5:36 AM

2010-05-22T22:00:00.003-04:00

5:36 AM. The arrival of our first customer to our yard sale. And they continued to pour in for a few hours. I really don't know what to say! I thought people only got up that early on Black Friday. We weren't complaining though. It is amazing the junk, and I mean JUNK, people will buy. I guess they feel they are getting a steal for $0.25. I am happy to have an attic rid of alot of our stuff and would have gladly paid them to take it all! By 2pm we had cleaned up the entire sale, made a run to goodwill with the leftovers (only a few boxes!), put the kids down for naps and Chad and I were about to nap too. Not too bad for a morning's work.

After naps we took a walk around City Lake to try out our new stroller (a triple sit and stand-what a beast!) and then went to Chico's to eat dinner as a reward for all our hard work. Chico's is located on the river and has an outside patio. The boys were able to see painted turtles in the river and feed them tortilla chips. We had fun.

Nathan had a funny today. The background is that Cameron found roundup (don't ask) and sprayed his brother in the eye. It scared me a little but we were able to wash it out. A few minutes after this incident Chad was trying to make sure Nathan could see ok. He held up fingers and asked Nate to count. "One...two...four!" Nathan said. To which Chad said, "Yep, he's fine." Good times, good times. Later that morning a man was looking at our double stroller we had for sale. A button was missing and this made it hard to collapse, but it still functioned fine. So Nathan says to the man, "The stroller is busted, it's broken." He said this a few times! The man told Chad that at least he was honest, not a good salesman, but honest. Too funny. We never did sell the stroller...

The boys and I visited a strawberry patch yesterday. It was our first time and we had a blast. Cameron must have eaten a dozen strawberry tops, he didn't understand to only eat the berry! It was so cute to see the kids with red mouths and their little containers of berries. They were very proud of their labors. After a lesson in strawberry farming, actual picking of the berries, and ice cream (strawberry of course!), we had a picnic at the park with a few friends. It was such a fun morning. I am really enjoying this stage with the boys: they can feed themselves, communicate in sentences, and even though they argue sometimes as brothers will, they really love each other. I feel blessed to be their mama. Thank you Lord for the privilege to raise these sweet boys.

CHEESE!

Look what I got!

Mmm, stems and all.

Fresh berries, nothing
like it!

Have a good Sunday worshipping our Lord Jesus.

He has a name!

2010-05-17T16:45:00.005-04:00

Well, our new addition has a name now. Chad and I have been calling him by one name pretty consistently, so we think we will go with it! We didn't have a name nailed down so early with the first two boys.

Sorry, I can't tell...it's a surprise! (If any of you got it out of me, shh please:) I can tell you I have ordered letters for above his crib (Chad joked that now it is set in stone), and his name can be shortened. Can hardly wait to meet this new little fellow! I may post a belly picture in response to a friend's request...we will see. I feel big, that's all I have to say.

Nesting...Not only for the birds

2010-05-01T17:03:00.005-04:00

So, it isn't a secret that I am NESTING! If Chad hears "Honey, how about this" one more time his head may explode (grin).

Well today HE surprised me by suddenly displaying overachieving, we have to get it ALL done now sentiments. So off to Lowe's we go...again. Hopefully this will be our last trip to the paint section for a very very very long time. I'm a bit surprised the employees don't know us by name yet!

I guess my nesting has worn off. At this moment he is cleaning out his car and then we start painting the master bedroom this evening when the kids go down. We also made a list this afternoon of the next big projects to do in order. I really am enjoying this side of him! I can feel the house coming together. I think we will be ready when this little one makes his debut. When we have the rooms finished, I'll post pictures. Have a fun weekend!

Buttons

2010-04-11T21:31:00.005-04:00

Everyone always has great things to say about Cameron..."He is so sweet" "What a great helper!" "He is a really good baby" and on it goes. As Nathan and Cameron's mama I'm privy to some of their moments that others may not see. For example...

While we were walking around the lake to feed the ducks tonight, Nathan asked where the crackers were to feed the duckies. Cameron immediately pipes up and says "I eat them...All gone!" Then the little scamp smiled as to rub it in. Talk about knowing Nate's buttons to push. He really did eat crackers, but I had some more. Of course Nathan was upset. Then Cameron repeats himself and smacks his lips at the end. Wow, and he is just 2. I had to reassure Nathan that we had more crackers in the bag. Chad and I laughed. Who needs to watch a comedy when you have children!

It's...a...

2010-03-31T14:40:00.004-04:00

BOY!!! We are very excited to have another boy in our house in a few months. Chad and I were able to see our new little one on the ultrasound today. He was looking right at us. So precious. All the measurements are good and right on track for growth. He sure is active, I've been able to feel movement since week 14. It is nice to already have everything we need, now if I can locate it...

Oh Nathan

2010-03-24T21:46:00.006-04:00

So today Nathan was having a stinky attitude toward Cameron...he didn't want to share his bike with Cameron and Nate said "I want to throw Cameron in the garbage." At that comment I sent him to his room to think of nice things to say to his brother.

When Nathan was ready he said this to Cameron through tears of course..."Cameron...I love you...(sob, cry), you're cool...you're funny...(more crying)...that's all I have to say right now."

To which Cameron said..."I love you", and proceeded to hug Nathan. Nate wasn't ready to be hugged, but they made up and are friends now.

Surprise!!

2010-03-23T21:42:00.004-04:00

March has been a fun month! We started out by visiting good friends in Shelby NC. Stayed a few days, ate at my most favorite mexican restaurant and had great girl time.

Then it was off to STL to surprise Grammy and the family. (Can you believe I actually kept that a secret from her?!?) It was just the boys and I, and yes we drove! Pretty much a spur of the moment decision-Chad and I felt this would be a good time since I'm not huge yet and can still travel without being miserable. Nathan and Cameron were very well behaved in the car all day long. Such little troopers. Chad's mom, Grammy, nearly fell on the floor when she came home and we were there to meet her. The kids were so excited to see Grammy and Poppy after such a long day. I'm sure they were convinced we would never arrive.

The trip highlights included a fishing trip for Nate, Grammy, and Poppy to Branson MO, a zoo day, visiting with my family and a few friends, and visiting my home church Calvary Baptist of Edwardsville IL for a couple Sundays.

Check out the slideshow below for pictures of our trip!

STL Pictures

2010-03-23T21:39:00.000-04:00

Snow day!

2010-01-31T20:10:00.008-05:00

NC got snow! And not just a little dusting...3 inches of white! Nathan and Cameron were so excited to see the snow when they woke up Saturday morning. It was sleeting until yesterday afternoon, we still played outside but it was more fun today. Chad took us sledding this morning...and yes it was Sunday. Let me explain. If your from NC just ignore this yankee. Apparently every church in our town was closed today, or at least delayed. Also, I guess this information is a given with NC natives. Of course church would be closed, right? (Can you tell we are from IL? Haha) We had no idea and proceeded to church to find no one there! Nathan was very upset that church was closed. Really, how do you explain that to a 3 year old?! So we went home, "muddled" (bundled) up as Nathan calls it and went sledding. I was able to get some video and may post it later. Cameron did surprisingly well. He hopped right on the sled with daddy and brother and cried when it was time to leave. I even went down the hill:) What a fun day. After sledding we went home to have chicken chili and take naps. Here are some pictures.

Getting ready to go down the hill!

Aren't they cute?

Stayed on the sled

the whole time.

Cameron didn't like

playing while the sleet

was coming down, so

he and I went inside.

Chad making snowballs!

Nathan didn't mind the sleet

and had a blast pelting his

parents with snowballs.

Happy Birthday Cameron!

2010-01-31T19:19:00.007-05:00

Cameron Bruza turned 2 years old January 25th. We had a couple friends over and kept things simple. Cameron sure has grown up in the last year. He is understanding everything we say and is talking a lot. He adds words each day and imitates what you do and say.

Cameron says "I done" when he wants to get down from the table. He also loves his alone time and sleeps/stays in his crib 12-13 hours or more each night. Overall he is a very happy baby. Very much a neat freak. He helps pick up toys and can't stand a mess on the floor, especially if something has spilled in the kitchen. He gets agitated and says "Meh, meh" (mess) over and over until it has been picked up! More often than not Nathan has been the one to make the mess (grin). We have also noticed that he gets embarrassed more than Nathan ever did. He started dancing one night at dinner when my cell phone rang. We all laughed and Cameron frowned, turned his head away and wouldn't make eye contact! So cute. So I had to make the phone ring again and Chad, Nate and I all danced to let him know it was ok.

Cameron's stats are good. He is in the 90% for his head circumference. That is one big head! He is also only 2 lbs behind his brother, only because he is a little shorter.

We have a great time with Cameron and are so glad he is a part of our family. Such a funny boy! And that hair! I have no idea what to do with it...we have to keep it short to be manageable.

Happy Birthday sweet Cameron! Mommy and Daddy love you.

Chad helped with the sports

ball cakes. Aren't they darling?

I told you he is a

neat freak! Cam loves

his new vacuum.

Movie night Cam's

birthday weekend.

We had popcorn, drinks,

and watched Cloudy

with a Chance of Meatballs.

The boys loved it.

Getting ready to sing

Happy Birthday.

Another Blessing

2010-01-19T18:58:00.006-05:00

I guess this picture says it all....we are going to have a baby! The baby is a the size of a peanut in this ultrasound. Chad is very, very excited and Nathan is not happy that we can't name the baby NOW. Nathan is also very concerned when he sits on my lap that he doesn't hurt the baby. So precious! I don't think Cameron has any idea what is about to happen...he is not only getting booted out of his room but he will no longer be the baby.

The pregnancy is going well. A bit different from the first two...maybe an indicator for a girl? Chad is definitely hoping for a daughter. I truly don't mind either way. We will find out though. My sweet husband is very insistent on that! He says he feels he can bond with the baby better that way. I guess I understand a little, after all we thought Nathan was a girl and practically called him Adelyn the entire pregnancy. Imagine our surprise when a red headed little boy made an appearance instead of our blonde girl! Needless to say we found out with Cameron, but I still think that is one of God's best surprises:)

Chad and I are humbled that God would see fit to give us another child. It is easy in the thick of parenting to get discouraged, but as a wonderful friend reminded me: "It is the Lord who opens and closes the womb". Thank you Lord for blessing us with a new baby and for trusting us with this huge responsibility.

The due date is July 30th...or is it the 31st? Oh dear, this pregnancy has me very forgetful:(
ANYWAY...the baby will be here this summer. I am about 13 weeks along at this time. So ready for that second wind...

A New Year

2009-12-31T08:34:00.006-05:00

The Bruza family has had a pretty good 2009. Chad has lost a job...God has given a better job...Nathan has turned 3 and is growing up into a fun sweet little boy...and Cameron has started talking and really developing his personality, he's a neat freak. I started working a few shifts a month at the hospital in town to keep my feet wet in the nursing field. We have really seen God work in 2009 and I am so excited to see what He has planned for 2010. This mama's prayer is that our family would grow closer to God, and impact those around us for Him.

Christmas was more fun this year since the kids are growing...Nathan was tearing into his presents and his brother's too! Cameron was more excited about the packages that were already opened, so I ended up unwrapping most of his presents (grin).

Cameron will be 2 yrs in a few weeks. Wow, time has flown. He just got a haircut and looks like a little man. He is getting tall, passing up his friends. He still needs his paci for sleeping...not sure how to break that habit...ugh. I just hope he gives it up before kindergarten.

Chad bought a new car, well new to us, before Christmas. He desperately needed one...if any of you know what he was driving before will testify to that! When Chad says it may not be safe...well, enough said! Only one problem, I will have to learn to drive a five speed if I want to drive it...watch out everybody.

Pictures to come of Christmas and Chad's new baby. Have a fantastic new year. May 2010 be a great year and may God reveal Himself to you in new and exciting ways!

Merry Christmas!

2009-12-20T21:10:00.003-05:00

I hope you all are having a blessed Christmas season! It is entirely too busy around here:) We have been pretty good, battling sickness as goes with the season but nothing too major. We really enjoyed spending Thanksgiving back home with our family. Please see the slide show below for pictures of our trip. We were able to see the two new babies, Shane and Logan. What dolls!

As I write this I hope each one of you know the true reason we celebrate Christmas, the birth of our Savior Jesus. My prayer this Christmas season is that you may know Him and discover just how much Jesus loves and cares for you. Have a wonderful Christmas!

Joy

Pictures from Vacation in STL

2009-12-20T21:09:00.000-05:00

Sears Pictures

2009-11-03T16:51:00.006-05:00

Cameron is 21 months now. I feel like time has flown. We took the boys to get pictures for the fall. Here's how they turned out.

This one was actually

taken in August for

Nathan's 3rd birthday.

It took Cameron a

while to warm up

to the camera.

What a handsome boy!

Silly brothers!

Cutie pie!

A new arrival

2009-11-02T15:49:00.007-05:00

My new nephew is so cute! I stole pictures from his Aunt Ashley's facebook album...no, I haven't seen him face to face yet...but we will soon! Enjoy the pictures! Isn't he pugdy? I love it! His stats at birth were 9lb 14oz and 21.75 in. He's a big boy:)

He's here! Shane Zachariah Bruza
and his sweet mommy, Katie.

Fatherhood is hard work, isn't
it Philip?

Look at that mass of hair!
Isn't he darling?!? Can't wait
to get my hands on him.

Chubby cheeks.

I just love naked babies!

Corolla NC Outer Banks Trip

2009-10-28T12:28:00.005-04:00

The Atlantic Coast is beautiful...
We had so much fun on the outer banks of NC this year, Sept 20-27. Chad's parents, his brother Andrew, Grandpa George, and friends of ours, the Wrights, made up the beach crew. We climbed a light house, saw Kitty Hawk, lounged on the beach and had great food. Nathan also gave us a scare when he suddenly came down with bronchitis and we had to take him to urgent care. He hasn't been that sick before. I felt bad...he was a bit crabby for a couple days ( the prednisone). He and I were playing the "I love you more" game. I told him I loved him more than chocolate. Nathan's response to me? 'I love you more than trash.' Nice.
The Lord gave us beautiful weather during hurricane season, very mild and even hot a couple days. I am so thankful for my wonderful family. Katie and Philip (Chad's brother and his wife) weren't able to make it this time since she was 36 weeks pregnant at that time. She delivered Shane early Monday morning. He weighed 9lb 14oz. Wow! That is one big baby. I'll post pictures of him as I can. Enjoy the slide show below!

Beach Pictures

2009-10-28T12:19:00.002-04:00

First Day

2009-09-10T21:39:00.008-04:00

Nate with his "Cars" backpack.

My baby is a big boy...and I'm proud ( a little sad too.) Nathan had his first day of preschool today and loved it. He couldn't get to sleep last night because he was so excited...Poor fellow, he was still awake when Chad and I were getting ready for bed. This morning he was literally bouncing off the walls-I couldn't keep him still. On the way to school he sang "I'm going to school" over and over. So precious. He didn't cry when we (Cam and I) left. Overall, it went great. I'm sure he will do wonderful this year.

Cameron had a blast too. He played with his friends at Chick Fil A and had a great time on his own. I think sometimes it's good for him to be free from the shadow of Nathan. The other moms I was with were amazed at Cameron. He was a brand new baby without his brother. More outgoing and not so temperamental.

Summer in Review

2009-08-28T20:40:00.010-04:00

We had a blast this summer! Chad's parents came out a couple times, Nathan and I celebrated our Birthdays the entire month (he made sure of that, Nate sang "Happy Birthday" every chance he got:), and Chad and I went to the mountains one weekend for our 4th anniversary.

Now we are getting ready to put Nathan in preschool, he is so excited! It's cute how he talks about going to school. My moms group has some fun things planned for this fall. Cameron is so precious these days, very loving. I'm going to end the post now and let the pictures do the rest.

Happy 3rd Birthday!

Curious George Cake

Cameron enjoying

his frozen yogurt.

Grammy got the boys

a new scooter...Nate

couldn't wait til morning.

The Children's Museum in Raleigh is alot of fun.

Cameron had a good time. He is watering the

plants with OJ and hefting the anchor.

Checking the label.

Helping...notice the slobber

on the cucumber.

Poppy's here!

So silly!

I love this picture.

Oh, boy! Motorbike rides.

Bouncing on the air mattress.

Nathan's new big

boy bed.

Panning for gems.

The hike to these falls

is longer than you

would think...

This bear was showing off to

get extra pieces of food.

As you can see, Cameron loves to wear hats.

Who told Noah to build the Ark?

2009-07-27T21:27:00.004-04:00

According to Nathan Bruza...Noah's wife told him to build the ark. Just had to let everyone in on that little piece of family fun. And yes, we let Nathan know that God told Noah to build the big boat. Kids are a blast! Have a fun week.

Joy

Musings

2009-07-16T22:14:00.002-04:00

We have lived in NC for 2.5 years now...and I've learned a few things...

1) To "cut on the lights" has absolutely nothing to do with scissors.

2) Most employees of fast food drive thru's are exceptionally courteous.

3) It's just as hot and humid here as in the midwest.

4) The dirt is red.

5) You start droppin' your ing's pretty quick around here.

6) Livermush...enough said.

7) The whole town shuts down when it snows (which isn't often)...so fun!

8) Like Ruth in the Bible I get to glean in the sweet potato fields...seriously.

9) The insects seem enormous!

10) And lastly, I have learned that God is faithful...faithful to provide work, friends, and most importantly faithful to love me when it would seem at times I am unlovable.

Have a fun weekend!

Joy

Picures as promised!

2009-06-30T22:14:00.000-04:00

Provision

2009-05-31T20:30:00.002-04:00

Hello to all my friends and family. I feel like it has been forever since I posted last, and I am eager to fill you all in on what God has been doing in our lives the past couple of months.

Around Easter Chad lost his job. He was able to see first hand what the boys and I do each day. I started working again, so God had everything under control even before we realized what was happening.

God has definitely been working on me...showing me areas that I need to work on and become more like His Son Jesus. I know He is preparing Chad and I for something bigger than ourselves. Please pray that we would continue to be open to God's prompting and His leading. I'm not going to post all of the details, but He is working and giving us miracles each day. Our Lord truly is Jehovah Jirah "The Lord Provides". He is teaching me to lean on Him and trust in His perfect plan. So, thank you Lord for providing for Your children, for leading us and showing us Your heart.

I hope to blog more often now. I will post pictures soon.

Difficulities

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my blog is experiencing technical difficulties...I want to post soooo bad!

Pictures

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Month in review

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Waiting for Daddy.

Long time, no post. Quite a bit has happened over the past month! Let's see if I can get everyone up to speed on the Bruza happenings.

Chad's mom and dad flew in for a week Feb 10-17. We had a great time with them. Daddy Mike built us a great shelf compartment under the TV to store our electronics. Yay! It looks wonderful. Thanks so much Daddy Mike! Now the next project Chad and I have is to paint the house. I'm super excited about painting and getting the house to the way I want it. Mama Lynn helped me hang paintings and photo groupings in the living room. It looks nice, I would have never been able to pull that off on my own. Thank you! We also celebrated Mama Lynn's birthday--the second year in a row she was in NC for her birthday!

Chad's parents stayed with the boys while Chad and I went to Hilton Head, SC for a marriage conference over Valentine's. It was "A Weekend To Remember" presented by Family Life. Some of you may listen to Dennis Rainey on the radio, he's the president of Family Life and a very wise godly man who God has used to strengthen families across America. We had been to one before and had a great time. It's so easy to let your relationship take a back seat due to kids, responsibilities, and life in general. I was able to get a fresh view of the great man God has given me. Our weekend was so fun! And as much as I missed the kids, I didn't think about them the entire time...I knew they were in good hands. Lynn and Mike were able to see some dear friends while we were away for the weekend, the Bywaters. They stayed the weekend at our house and I hear they a fun time:) It was good to finally meet you all! You're welcome at our house anytime.

I also got a job at a local hospital. I'll start on Monday. I'm a little nervous, but I'm sure it will be fine. Orientation is eight to twelve weeks and my hours will be full time during that time. Once I'm on my own I'll work prn-about six days a month or so. We've been blessed to have a couple of girls who are home schooled to help with the kids so I don't have to place them in daycare. Aunt Mary Ellen has also offered to watch them. I am so grateful for these sweet people!

Cameron had his first haircut this Monday. I was sad...first haircuts are emotional for me. It means my baby is growing up:( Chad cut Cameron's hair and I held down the screaming child. Seriously, Cam thought he was going to die. Chad and I were having some "intense" conversation during the process, Cam was screaming his head off, squirming all over, and getting sticky sucker in his hair! (Whose idea was that?! ) In my defense, I thought it would distract him. Alright, here are the before and after shots. He is cute, isn't he?

Before (like I needed to clarify!)

After So handsome!

Sickness

2009-02-08T22:30:00.003-05:00

Friends are special people. They know how to make it all better without saying anything, always know what your thinking, and are there in good times and bad. My sweet friend Missy has been so sick with this precious baby, and yet she found time to come see us for a short weekend...Well, sort of. Thanks for making the trip girl! Even if it was realllly short!! Hope you feel better very soon.

Last Friday and Saturday we planned to have some girl time but Cameron rearranged our plans. He woke from his nap that afternoon with pink eye. Missy and Bella decided to risk it and they arrived at our house for dinner. Not even an hour after they arrived, Cameron was puking! Of course, I was planning to have them sleep in Cameron's room. Since we weren't sure if it was a stomach virus our guests left for Missy's aunts house an hour away. Man!! We'll get together soon girl! I want to come your way before the baby and then we can all hang together (that means you too, Heather:)

Cam also had an ear infection, so we have been on antibiotics and eye drops all week. Needless to say, we are so ready to have a fun week. Chad's parents are coming in a couple days and Nathan is super excited to see Poppy and Grammy.

Hope you all have had a restful Sunday. Have a great week.

Snow and a birthday

2009-01-26T19:38:00.007-05:00

As I sit here on a Monday night, waiting for 24 to start, things are pretty quiet around here. Chad it solving a puzzle on wheel of fortune (he says he doesn't like the show, but is always happy when he solves the puzzle): The kids are in bed. So I thought I would catch up from my Christmas post.

We had a snow day this past week! Nathan liked the snow...in fact, we still have snow balls in the freezer. The snow only lasted a couple days, but it was so much fun. Reminded us of home in IL. Even Chad got the day off. Check out my snow babies!

Since I have posted last, my baby has turned one! He is getting cuter each day. Cameron cruises very well, stands with only a few fingers for support on whatever he is against. Will not say mama to save his life!!! Dada, ga, and I'm not sure but I think he may have said papa tonight. Cameron tackles Nathan every chance he gets. It's pretty funny. We have his one year check up tomorrow. Last weight, he was 3 lbs less than Nate. We had a birthday dinner for Cameron and invited the Marshall's over (Chad's family in town). I made a cake, and chicken chili. We had a good time. Here are some pictures.

Mama and Cameron

Train Cake

Mmmm

Cracking himself up

Precious baby

Christmas back home

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Christmas and New Years

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Were back!!! Vacations are so much fun and go by way too fast. The boys and I did great on our flight by ourselves to STL. Let me tell you all about it....

So this mama was very ill the day before we were to leave. I told Chad that if I felt the same the next morning I didn't see how I was going to fly with two children. Cameron started the whole thing, he had been sick since early Tuesday morning, so by Thursday Chad had to stay home with me.

I did make the flight and the boys did great. Chad was even allowed on board to help us get settled. So we get to STL and all is good. I'm feeling better, Cameron is still under the weather but doing ok. My brother and sister in law came down for the weekend (they live 3 hours away)to help with the Christmas pageant at church. Would you believe they got sick?!? I felt like a dog for bringing sickness...uh..Merry Christmas? Philip didn't get to go to the pageant, he was supposed to be playing the violin and guitar. The bug also hit Chad's dad, my sister, and step mom. For the record I did warn everyone we had been sick but they all said "Oh, don't worry about it. Come anyway!"

We had a great time after that first week! Visited with a lot of friends and family. Grammy and Poppy took the boys to see the Christmas lights. Nathan rode a donkey! Soo cute. We must have had at least 3 Christmases between our families. Nana, Chad's Grandmother, turned 80 and we had a bash for her during our time there too. The new year was a lot of fun, dinner with Chad's moms family and then a low key movie night. I was so tired I barely could stay awake as the family prayed in the new year. It is so nice to be a part of a family who treasures and honors the Lord.

Everyone was so generous, we had a lot to load in the van. Thank you Nana and Papa for giving us the van! It was packed pretty full for our trip back. The boys did wonderful on the ride home. We stopped in Shelby NC to visit friends and attend a birthday party for Bella. Then we drove the last four hours home.

We sure did have a blast on our trip. Made a lot of memories and felt very loved and blessed. Nathan had added many words to his vocabulary and asks about our family by name. I hope you each had a wonderful Christ centered Christmas and New Year. Love you all!

Oooh! I almost forgot! I personally know a few movie stars and a movie director...Chad's childhood friend and his family have been working on their new movie for 3 years. We were able to watch it and it is really neat. They weave in the gospel, there's action, and a bit of romance. This is their third film and it is really good. Check it out! http://burnsfamilystudios.com/movies/pendragon/

Plans, playgroups, and precious people

2008-12-05T21:59:00.001-05:00

Christmas is the best time of year! I love decorating, baking, and being with family and friends. This year we have a charlie brown tree since the boys and I will be going to St Louis in a week. I couldn't find a small angel topper so I am using an ornament. It's OK, you all can laugh, it looks a little silly! We have a "Cars" tree skirt. Can you tell I'm a mother of boys? Ha ha! The tree is still pretty and Nathan loves to look at the ornaments. And Cameron can't reach it very easily since I have it perched on a table. He has been more distracted by the Hallmark animated singing and dancing penguins I have on the floor. Hopefully next year we will have a real tree:)

I've been shopping, planning meals, compiling lists for our trip, juggling playgroups, trying to keep the house in order and the laundry caught up. Nana and Papa, Chad's grandparents were in town too. We had some fun visits with them. All of this is the reason I haven't been blogging regularly.

Wednesday night the moms group had a secret santa night out at the coffee shop. We had a blast! A bunch of women talking and exchanging presents. A dear friend gave me a framed collage of my babies from playgroups we attended. It was extra special since my camera had broken and I didn't get it replaced for a couple of weeks. She took pictures of my boys during the time I didn't have a camera. So sweet! Only a mama could understand the need to capture the changes that happen so fast. Thank you Babs! The picture is already on my wall!

I've decided to post a slide show instead of individual pictures since we have had a lot going on the past few weeks. Enjoy!

Thanksgiving Pictures

2008-12-05T21:39:00.001-05:00

"I'd rather have a root canal"

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And with that comment from Chad we left the portrait studio. Pictures are a blast with two kids, especially a two year old. OK, not so much! We did, surprisingly, get a few good ones. Notice Nathan's smirk in the picture above. Not a true smile, but I'll take it. I'll put a few on this post.

Thanksgiving is upon us already. I am very thankful for my wonderful family, all the friends God has given me here in NC, my church family and those dear 4th grade boys we teach. I pray each of you have a great Thanksgiving surrounded by those you love. May we all find joy in the little things and be thankful for each day the Lord gives us. Happy Thanksgiving!

Here are the pictures-- Nathan 2yr 3mo Cameron 10mo

Brotherly bonding

2008-11-17T21:18:00.006-05:00

Here's a funny story I thougt I'd share. I was at Bible study when this happened so Chad filled me in.

Chad had put Cameron in his highchair, warmed his sweet potatoes, and stepped out of the room for a minute before he started feeding the baby. Nathan saw an opportunity and jumped on it. He took the potatoes, pulled up a chair to Cameron and started feeding him--using some of the words and phrases mommy uses. "I feed you Cameron!" "Big bite!" "That's good!". Instead of continuing to rattle on I'll just show you....

I'll feed you Cameron!

Mmm...yummy. A few bites

actually made it in!

Uh-oh

I'll feed myself Nathan!

Big bite!

Oops Nathan, Cameron is

gagging...

No more Nathan, please!

Have a great week! And Missy, I hope you feel better soon! Love to you all!

I've Got Sunshine on a Cloudy Day...

2008-11-16T20:46:00.013-05:00

This weekend was a whirlwind of fun! My friend Paige married her sweetie, Patrick Edwards. The ceremony was outside at the edge of a creek by Paige's house and the reception was in her backyard under a huge white tent. So much work went into planning this wedding. They only had a 3 month engagement! Paige and Patrick worked endless hours getting the grass and landscaping just right. It turned out beautiful.

The evening of the rehearsal was soggy and intermittent rain. But plans were in full swing...rain or not! We were all praying that it would clear by ceremony time.

The wedding day dawned cloudy but not raining. As the girls were getting ready, the sun peaked through!! Funny how you pray for something and are sometimes surprised that God answers with a yes. The afternoon was warm and sunny, and the bridesmaids were taken the short distance from the house to the creek in a horse drawn carriage. So pretty! The bride and her daddy came in the carriage after everyone was in place. Patrick was breath taken, Paige was a beautiful radiant bride. They wanted to remind their guests of the Biblical plan for marriage and the Salvation message in the ceremony. Their wedding was beautiful and God honoring.

Father and Daughter

Patrick and the girls

Paige and the girls

Dancing to "My Girl"

They were nice to each other:)

Congrats Mr and Mrs Edwards!! Love you both!

Nathan and Cameron visit the fire house

2008-10-21T15:56:00.008-04:00

As I write this I am sitting on my front porch enjoying the afternoon. Such a pretty fall day. Presently Nathan is standing on a tree stump hollering "I jump!" over and over. ( a spider was crawling on my neck just now!!! Oohhh, I don't like those creatures at all. I'm sure the neighbors got a good laugh with me dancing on the porch like a maniac. I still have the willys...hope his brother isn't around...)

The boys and I went to the fire house this past Friday to tour with the mom's group. How fun! There were 13 kids plus moms. The fire fighters were wonderful! They gave us over an hour tour and one of the fire trucks had to go to a medical emergency while we were there! Nathan stood at the window and told the fire fighters bye bye. The group posed for a picture with the fire fighters at the end of the morning. A sweet fire fighter held Cameron for me as I snapped a picture. When we were finished I started talking to one of the moms...and completely forgot about Cameron! Another of the ladies asked the man if he had kids and was going to take Cameron until I came to my senses at that very moment. How embarrassing!!

Cameron and his fireman.

Nathan in the fire

truck.

Nate begged the fireman to

"Please help, please help!"

And down he went.

The whole gang.

In other news...

Chad has been out of town twice this month. I don't think I would mind so much if it wasn't for the kids. Yes, I know this sounds bad, but the boys must be very aware that mommy is doing this parenting thing on her own for a few days, and they step it up a notch! Come home soon, Baby! This mama needs a break. I shouldn't complain, I do have great boys. Times apart like this remind me just how blessed I am to have Chad in my life. Love ya Chad.

Sweet Moments

2008-10-14T20:49:00.002-04:00

Nathan has been super sweet lately. He learned from his friend Bella to say "Hold you Mommy!" It's so cute and sweet. He hasn't been a cuddly baby so this is a great change, I'll hold him whenever he will let me!

Yesterday as we were sitting down to supper, Nate grabbed Chad and my hands and said "I'll pray." And he did! Mostly jabbering but I did make out 'Jesus' and of course the 'Amen!'. This evening he said prayers at supper and bedtime. Thank you Lord, for the gifts you give us in our children. They are so precious. May we direct them to You by what we say and do.

That's all I had to share. I hope you all have a great Tuesday.

Ears and Teeth

2008-10-13T21:35:00.002-04:00

Well, Nathan has another ear infection. We just walked this road last month. He had been cranky for a few days with teething, but Friday he was pitiful to watch. He woke from his nap in excruciating pain, I couldn't calm him. So, off to the Dr we go. The Doc put him on omnicef since he was on amoxill last time. Now since he has had a few doses I think he's getting over the rough part. Nate only woke once last night, and we were able to put him down again easily. I hope he will be able to rest the whole night through tonight.

That's all for now. I'm worn out and need to go to bed...goodnight all.
Joy

1st's

2008-10-09T18:50:00.002-04:00

The boys have had a few milestones in the past day or two. Here they are...

Cameron

1) Broke second tooth today (OK not exactly a first) on the bottom.
2) Now eats 2 containers of baby food at a time (twice daily). What a piggy!

Nathan

1) He went pee on the potty intentionally today! I left him to get Cameron ready for bathtime and I heard a "yeah!!" coming from the bathroom. He was so proud! I guess he needed a little privacy before he could produce results.

And lastly, my sweet boys have officially had their first fight. Normally Cameron lets Nate bully him. Not any more. They were in the bathtub and both wanted the squirt gun, each taking turns stealing it from the other. Nathan yelled and Cameron cried. It was pretty funny. I had to go get another squirt gun to keep the peace.

Fall is here!

2008-10-08T21:41:00.002-04:00

Do you have a fireproof marriage?

2008-10-05T21:22:00.002-04:00

Chad and I went to see the movie Fireproof, and we loved it. Our pastor is really excited about the way God is using this movie to help strengthen relationships around our country, and he is preaching a sermon series on how to fireproof our marriages. It has been excellent and stirred some good conversation between Chad and me. As Christians, we can't afford to let our marriages go on auto pilot, we must invest into the life of our partner, and both be centered on the Lord Jesus. It sure is easy to let things go, especially since life gets so busy sometimes. The movie has a wonderful gospel presentation and I would encourage inviting unbelieving friends and family.

Nathan and Cameron are doing great, always something new. Now Nathan talks in complete (well sorta) sentences, "I want a bite", "I love you Mommy and Daddy", "Grammy and Poppy's house" to name a few. He obeys us better each day, even went to the timeout chair by himself on my first command. That makes a mama proud! Cameron is nearly crawling, he sure can get around fast. He eats crackers, cheerios, and homemade baby food like a champ.

I do have some sad news...George, Bruce, and Squirt have passed away. They were our goldfish we brought home from our visit to Shelby. Chad, my forever sweet husband said that flowers last longer than fish around our house. Well, that may be true, but what am I going to do with the large container of fish food I bought?

I want to post some pictures, but I've misplaced the cord that goes from the camera to the computer. Hope to find it soon. Have a great week!

Happy Teddy Bear Day!

2008-09-24T21:13:00.005-04:00

Nathan and his bear

For those of you who didn't know, today is national teddy bear day. My local mom's group celebrated with a teddy bear picnic for the kids. They had so much fun playing outside and playing with their bears. So cute!

Nathan, Cameron, and I went to Shelby this past week to see all our friends. We had a blast! Thank you to Missy and her family for giving us a place to sleep. And Heather, Missy, I felt like we were a bunch of teenagers with the way we carried on. (maybe we shouldn't tell the guys:) Here are a few pics of the week.

Nate and Bella giving each
other 'bites'. And yes, Nathan
is in the tub. Close your eyes
Bella!

Such sweet music.

Brother time. Cameron's first
time in the swing. He loved it.

Nathan Gardner is such
a sweet boy and big helper!

Breakfast bonding!

In other news, Sunday school is going much better. We have a good bunch of kids, mostly boys. Nathan and Cameron are growing big. Cameron can sit up for a little bit by himself if I position him just right, but he prefers to schooch on his belly like a soldier. Only one tooth so far, and he eats about a 1/2 cup of food a day. Here are some more pics of the boys playing. Until next time...ttfn!

The little soldier.

Quick! Snap the picture before
he falls over!

Cameron's legs are
really strong.

Nathan and Ty in the tunnel.

Back to School...

2008-09-07T17:20:00.003-04:00

Today was our first day of school...Sunday School, that is. Chad and I are teaching a rambunchous group of fourth grade boys. We did get through the lesson, learned their names, and went over the memory verse even though they tested us on every turn. Oh no boys, we are not going anywhere! In fact, we will be back next week armed and ready to bestow the love of Jesus on each one of you! Wether you like it or not (grrr). If they actually learned anything, well, that remains to be seen. All kidding aside, I think we will like teaching as a team.

On to other news...Nathan had his first real haircut Saturday. And by real I mean Daddy used the clippers. Mama was a bit nervous but it turned out pretty good. Well done Chad! I'll post a picture a little later.

The Bruza clan has been under the weather this past week. Summer head colds and an ear infection (poor Nate) have kept us cooped up all week. I will be relieved to get back on schedule tomorrow. I'm even off to the YMCA! My friend Paige is getting married in November and I need to fit into the pretty dress she picked out. I'll post pictures of the blessed event in Nov.

My babies moved up today in Sunday School--both of them:( If I had my way they would never have graduated out of the baby nursery...but Nate was so proud of the pretty picture he made today that I am glad he is growing into a sweet little boy. Cameron is moving so well these days that he can scoot across the room in no time to get a toy. I guess he needs to be with the older babies.

We are much closer to painting our house. We now have paint swatches and will decide on the right colors this week. Butter and Sand #3 are the top picks so far. I am so excited! I can hardly wait to show everybody the new living room and kitchen. I've even ordered art work and purchased some pretty pictures for the walls. We havn't painted since we lived in IL, so this is a big deal:) I will feel more settled once we have all this done. Oh, and we are hopefully getting a piano tomorrow! I am super excited about this since Chad plays like an angel and it helps him de-stress. He hasn't had a piano since he left his parent's home. Sure hope it works out. I have a place carved out in my living room for it and everything!

I know this was a long post...sorry:)
Have a blessed week! Love you all. Joy

Summer Fun

2008-08-26T21:53:00.001-04:00

The mighty hunter...

2008-08-26T20:12:00.002-04:00

OK everyone, I need to let you in on a Chad funny. I asked him to kill a spider a few minutes ago. Unable to find the broom (since the spider has sequestered himself to a corner), he broke out the airsoft gun...and obliterated the poor thing. He then looks out the front door, and I already know what he is thinking. He came in the house three times to switch out guns and get more ammo in his quest to rid our house of the pests. What a mighty hunter! You go Baby.

25 years

2008-08-22T16:05:00.004-04:00

Well, I'm officially 25 as of Wednesday. I was dreading this particular birthday because I'm half done with my twenties and that much closer to thirty!!!:) As I reflect on my life so far I see again just how blessed I am. Chad and I have two beautiful boys God has given us to raise, a house with a big yard, a wonderful family, and a sweet church home. Thank You, Lord!

Chad and I also celebrated 3 years of marriage on my birthday. We got a sitter, ate at Red Lobster, and saw a movie. It was nice to have the evening to ourselves. Time sure has flown by so far. We have done quite a bit in a little time--houses, kids, jobs, etc. I Love you my sweet Chad and I thank God that He has given us each other.

I can't end a post without updating everyone on Cameron's milestones.

1 Just this week has begun to eat big boy food....it's about time!

2 Sits in highchair

3 Can nearly fling himself out of the bumbo seat. Since this mama isn't about to let him prove this skill, the bumbo seat is now retired.

4 Scootching and rolling all over the floor on his tummy to reach toys.

I hope you all have a great week! Joy

Birthday cake!

2008-08-13T21:44:00.005-04:00

We celebrated Nate's birthday Tuesday night with my mom and sister. They are here from IL this week. We are having a great time! I'll post more later. I hope you all are having a great week. Here are some pics...

Blow the candles!

Yum, yum.

Tractor cake.

Cameron and Landon-my
sweet nephew.

Happy Birthday Nathan!

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Nathan Bruza is 2 today!
He had a good day...we wore him out:) It started with family pictures at Sears. They turned out pretty good. Then a long snooze and PRESENTS!! He loves his new 'car' (tricycle), but he is having a hard time figuring out the pedals and steering...so he alternates between riding and pushing it. Thank you all for the cards and presents you sent. Nathan had a good time opening them:)

Dear Nate,

Happy birthday!! Mama and Daddy love you so much! We have a great time being your Mommy and Daddy. You are so precious and make our lives fun and full of joy. Nate, you are a great big brother. Cameron is blessed to have you as his big brother. You sure are getting a vocabulary and tell us 'I love you' lots each day. No matter how many birthdays you have, you will always be our little boy. We love you sweet Nathan.

Mama and Daddy

Sleeping in the car ___________Ooh, presents!
after pictures.

What a smart cookie!

Lets get personal...

2008-08-02T22:00:00.003-04:00

Hello Everyone!

God has been working on me for a while. I guess I've felt distant from Him, wanting and praying for true intimacy but never really arriving. Very frustrating. I do know I'm lazy when it comes to setting aside meaningful Bible and prayer time, so I have no one to blame but me. Anyway, all this to say the Lord mercifully led me to a study of Him that I think will change my view of Him and cultivate a deeper relationship with Him.

I have started to study the names of God. There is a reason God used different names to describe Himself in scripture--so we can get a glimpse of the wonderful God we serve. The first name of God in scripture is Elohim, "powerful God". He is Creator God, the One true God of the universe. And He cares about you and me. Wants to know us intimately! That makes me think of the praise song ( I don't know the name or artist, but part of it goes like this...) 'It makes me want to shout-Thank you Jesus, Hallelujah, You are worthy of all the honor and all the glory and all the praise'!

Well, I will post more of what I have learned later. Have a great Sabbath. Love to you all. Joy.

My wonderful wife!!!

2008-07-27T11:04:00.013-04:00

Yes this is Chad, and yes I have hacked into Joy's blog. I need to tell EVERYBODY why I am incredibly proud of Joy, and why I am incredibly in love with her.

First off, Joy is a wonderful, loving, and above all patient (and equally beautifull!) wife. I am spontanious sometimes... ok... I am spontanious period. I often pop up with spontanious ideas that don't have any logical or explanable reasons - except that it sounds really fun and meaningful at the time, but really adds stress to Joy and isn't really sensitive. Joy always hugs me and tells me that she loves me and that it will be ok (yes, we kiss too).

Joy is a wonderful Mother. We have two boys (two little ones) that Joy cares for every day. I cannot tell you the energy and curiosity that Nathan (our oldest, 2yrs old) ALWAYS has... he keeps me running from when I get home to when he goes to bed at 8:00. Joy is with him (and Cameron, 7 mnths) all day long!!! WOW MOM (that's 'wow' frontwards, backwards, upside down frontwards, upside down backwards). She shows the same love and patience to our kids that she shows me every day.

If you have met Joy, you would think she was one of the nicest and caring people you have met. The truth is, that is who she is. All through my life I had prayed to God for joy in my life. I never realized that He would send the Joy of my life; the Joy of my heart.

Our trip home...

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The Travelers are Home!

2008-07-25T13:07:00.003-04:00

Whew! I feel like we have been on fast forward for about 2 weeks. We had a great time visiting with family in the STL area, and are just now recovering from the fatigue:)

Nathan and Cameron were spoiled rotten by my grandparents Morley, dad, sisters, and brother. Then we had a good visit with my mom, aunt, and grandma Bea. On Chad's side we were able to visit with his grandparents, mom and dad, and great aunt. We even squeezed in a couple of short-and I mean short:( visits with friends. Chad missed seeing his brother by a few hours because he needed to get back to NC for work reasons. It was good that Nate and I saw Andrew though. Cameron went with Daddy back home early. It worked out OK. Chad's cousin, Josiah, is a wonderful boy and very responsible. He took great care of Cameron the entire day on Monday! Thank you, Josiah!

I was a little concerned about sending the baby home with Chad, but they both did great. I hadn't realized until we were preparing to send off Chad and Cameron to the airport that it was my first overnight separation with Cameron. I was a little sad and way ready to see him when we got home. Little rascal didn't miss me though. He was perfectly content to be kept fed and dry, no matter who he was with.

I do have to say Nathan has grown up alot lately. He is saying more two and three word sentences and seems to add words to his vocab daily. Grammy Lynn cut his hair and now he looks like a little man. Nate loved the swimming pools back home. "wah-ter" ! I bought a wading pool we are hoping to set up tomorrow if it doesn't rain.

Sorry there aren't pics with this post. You all know my story by now...Chad hasn't loaded them to my computer yet, and I have no clue where to start. So I'll get a slide show together this evening and post asap. Have a great weekend!

Splash!! And in he went...

2008-07-10T21:15:00.002-04:00

As you may have suspected, Nathan fell in the pool! We had to drop something at Aunt Mary Ellen's house this evening and we let Nathan out of the car to pet Penny (their dog). Aunt Mary Ellen and I were chatting by the pool and watching Nate throw beach balls in the water. Chad had joined us after choosing some movies to watch over the weekend. We were saying our goodbyes since it was getting late (only 8pm! I never thought that would be considered late...) and the boys needed baths and bed.

We all heard the splash...and didn't see Nate. He had fallen in the shallow end and was near the edge. Josiah and I couldn't reach him though and Chad hopped into the water. Thank the Lord, Nathan didn't inhale any water! I couldn't believe it. He came out of the water crying and shaken up but not spitting and sputtering. He held his breath...I guess that is a good sign since we want him to learn how to swim. It didn't surprise me when Nate fell in since he flirts with the edge every time he is at the pool. Hopefully this experience will fill him with a healthy fear of the water.

Have a happy Friday! Love to you all.

Freedom

2008-07-08T20:34:00.004-04:00

July 4th was a lot of fun. We went swimming as a family and Nathan had a blast in the water. He has become very brave the last couple of times in the water. Chad and I tossed him back and forth-quite a big step for our little Nate. I didn't take pictures, but I caught the boys on video. I'll have to learn how to post videos soon.

Later that day we attended our church's annual picnic. They go all out with free food for members of the community, games, and concerts by the choir and church members. This is the church's big outreach of the year. It was a nice time to remember our men and women serving our country and their sacrifice. As a Christian I'm glad to have spiritual freedom as well as living in a free nation.

Nate enjoying the fireworks--Cameron snoozing

Nathan had a good time on the slide and train. Daddy was working at the slide for an hour and Nate felt it was ok to cut in line-he knew people, right? Mommy and Nate had to go for a walk to cool off his little red headed temper. If he wasn't my son it may have been funny. He stamped his bare feet and was very put out.

The lady I met at the park has been to a couple of events I've invited her to attend. I think she has been grateful to have this extra mommy time with her little boy since she will be in school full time this fall. I couldn't imagine going to school full time with the boys. She sure is a brave woman. I'm still praying God will work in her life and use me if He desires.

After playgroup this week Nathan started talking in three word sentences! Way to go Nate! 'Love you Mama', 'It's good Mama', are a couple of phrases he has been saying. So cute. He had Chad and me laughing over dinner. He carried on a conversation like a little man:)

Next week we are flying to STL to see our family and show off the boys. It will be a great time of family fun. So watch out everyone--we're coming soon! Here are a few pictures of Cameron's most recent photo session. Isn't he a ham?!

Our Sovereign Lord

2008-06-27T15:01:00.003-04:00

Today I was supposed to meet with other moms and walk in the park. God had other plans...nobody could come. As many of you know my little redhead has been testing his mama lately-so we played at the park anyway. Anything to occupy his young active mind. I met a single mom with a little boy Nate's age. We had a good talk and the boys played well. I learned she is moving out of state in a month. So of course I invited her to some group activities for moms and kids. God kept prompting me to say more, like if she didn't know Him and just walked away, she may never hear the Truth. So I invited her to church as we parted ways...good enough, right? It appeased my conscience at least. So she is walking the few blocks to her house and I drive past. The Lord wanted me to turn the car around and I argued. She is going to think I'm an idiot! I turned around, flagged her down and we exchanged numbers. I would love to say I witnessed to her and she was saved on the spot, but that didn't happen. I will say that she seemed more than happy to see that someone cared that she needed companionship for herself and little boy. Will more come of this? I hope so.

I need my sisters in Christ to pray for this lady, I'll call her 'D.' Please pray for me too, that I will say what God wants me to say and not be afraid of what her reaction may be. I know nothing happens by accident. The Lord planned our meeting today far in advance. And you know what, after I was obedient and turned the car around, I had the peace that passes all understanding. I want to say I'm obedient all the time--but if I was I probably wouldn't think it was post worthy but just a normal part of life. I love you all! Talk to ya later.

Family Time

2008-06-25T12:21:00.008-04:00

Hello to all! The Bruza family has had a whirlwind couple of weeks...this may be a long post, so be warned:)

Mr and Mrs Dayton Hartman

It was so nice to see family, we had a great visit. Rebekah, (Chad's cousin) was successfully married to Dayton Hartman. He is a very godly man and they are so happy together. I believe the plan is for Dayton to pursue his doctorate in apologetics this year. He is a few months younger than me and has great things going for him. Congrats you two! It was a beautiful wedding. The reception was at her parents home. Everything was spectacular.

Philip, Katie, and the nephews

Chad's brothers, sister in law, and parents were at our house for the wedding. It was like a zoo around here! We had a full size bed set up in both the boys rooms, an air mattress in the living room, and Cameron was set like a king in our closet.

The Bruza Men_________Chad and his boys

Nate and his Poppy

Father's day was special with Chad, his dad, and grandpa (Papa) all together. We had a family lunch at Uncle Jeff and Aunt Mary Ellen's house. It was a lot of fun. Chad took off Thurs and Fri to spend time with his parents. Mama Lynn was tickled pink to have more time with him. We spent Friday at the outer banks. Nate loved the waves. Funny, he is more cautious in the pool than the ocean!

At Kitty Hawk, NC_____ Nathan loves splashing

Nathan had a great time getting spoiled by Grammy and Poppy. Look at his new horsey! Nate has a blast on the horse. He isn't settled into normal life yet- a little irritable and whiny at times. I guess that comes with the territory since he is nearly 2.

Yee-Haw!

Cameron gave us a scare this past week. I supplemented him with formula and he reacted to it. Hives, some difficulty breathing, vomiting, and gas. I was pretty concerned but he was back to normal after a half hour or so. We have had to supplement with soy instead of milk based formula. He is tolerating that fine. Cameron also rolled over from tummy to back! It was a great time of rejoicing until he wouldn't perform again. He hasn't rolled in either direction since that one incident. Aunt Katie is our witness, though, that he can indeed roll over! Little rascal!

Grammy and an allergic baby
Look at those red eyes!

We were able to spend time with Nana, Papa, and Aunt Shesh too. That was alot of fun. Nana really enjoyed Cameron. She fed him his first cereal last evening. That was special.

Cameron's 1st swim_____Nana and Cameron
Uncle Jeff is holding the baby.

Papa and Cameron____ Nana Pickle, Nana Maxine,
____________________and Aunt Shesh

OK, so this post has taken me three days...anyone want a little redhead? Just kidding. I'll post some more pictures later. I hope everyone has a great week. God bless.

Brothers

2008-06-14T23:11:00.001-04:00

Weekend Wrap-Up

2008-06-08T10:29:00.004-04:00

Hey everyone! I haven't posted many pictures lately...sorry about that. I didn't have Chad home all last week due to a work trip to Charlotte (Chad always downloads my pictures to the laptop). I will strive to do better. You're probably wondering why I'm posting and not at church...well, I'll tell ya. We were nearly ready to go and Nate puked. Yucky. No wonder he was cranky last night. He even laid on his floor this morning after he got dressed, not like him at all. So he is down for an early nap. Poor Nate.

Chad's brother and his wife came into town yesterday from IL. They are headed to the beach for a couple days before our cousin's wedding on Saturday. The rest of the family gets in on Friday and by Monday Chad's brothers will be going home. Then it will be Grammy and Poppy for the next week. We will have a fun time and are looking forward to the visit.

We had a yard sale yesterday and did pretty well. I sure was glad to get rid of stuff. I better get moving...the rest of the family will be home before I know it. I'll post more later. Pictures are coming. I may post a slide show and make it easier all around.

Heat wave!

2008-06-04T22:22:00.002-04:00

We have been enjoying sunny and warm weather the past few days. I have my flowers planted. I will take and post a picture tomorrow. God's creation is so amazing. What a caring God to create nature for our enjoyment. Nathan saw a bunny on our walk tonight and was thrilled. I think he enjoyed watching our friend's dog even more. They sure do grow up fast.

We are looking forward to company in the next week. Chad's entire family will be with us. For a few days we will all be together until his brothers leave for work commitments. We are very excited to see them! Nathan loves to talk to Grammy and Poppy on the computer and phone.

In other news, the Bible study started off great. The ladies in the Sunday School class are so fun. We are starting in James and learning the basics of what it means to be a disciple. There are 54 commands of Christ in James, at the end I will have no excuses:) If you think of me would you pray for consistency and discipline as I work through this study? I know there will be days I won't want to do it at all. Those days I need God's grace the most! Oh the flesh and sinful nature--it sure is hard to die daily. On that note, I need to study some before bed. So goodbye for now all my friends. I love you all and 'thank God upon every remembrance of you, making mention of you in my prayers'. Have a great rest of the week!

Fun In The Sun

2008-05-30T17:25:00.003-04:00

Today was so much fun! We walked with three other moms in our city moms group this morning. 3 1/2 miles round trip in the park. It took us an hour, so we kept a decent pace. Nate played with the kids for a while and then we went home. Nate was pretty upset. No, strike that. He was furious with Mama. Oh well, Mama can't always be the good guy.

Then I fed the boys and put them down for naps in record time...because I had somewhere to be! Chad's aunt Mary Ellen (M.E.) and I went for a late lunch and her son Josiah watched the kids. We had a lot of fun! Her daughter, Rebekah, is getting married in two short weeks, so she has a lot on her plate. It was good to be able to spend time with Aunt M.E..

When Nathan got up from his nap we played outside. The weather is beautiful today. Sunshine and warm. Cameron loves the outdoors and Nathan enjoys getting his little brother wet from the water table. Watch out Nate, Cameron will be big before you know it. I will try to post a video of Nate and Cameron soon.

One more thing...Nate and Cameron had a sweet brother moment today. As we were driving home today I heard Nate saying "Ahh...Boo" over and over again. I thought he was talking about his boo boo on his knee. I looked in the back seat and Nate was pulling Cameron's bib over his face and playing peek a boo. Cameron was smiling at his big brother and having a great time. I hope you all have a great weekend. The Bruza's are planting flowers this weekend!

My Cup Runneth Over

2008-05-23T13:26:00.003-04:00

Wow. What a week! The kids were sick for a couple of days with a virus--fever and general crankiness. But overall it has been a great week. I have seen God work in many ways and He has shown me He is in control again and again.

1) God has blessed me with friendship. I have wonderful moms I meet with regularly to share laughs and fun times. What a great God we serve! These ladies were basically dropped into my lap--He knows what a social klutz I am:) I will also be joining a ladies Bible study next month with our Sunday school and hope to get to know these precious ladies a little better.

2) It is not about me! Its all about Him and the glorifying of His Name. I am learning that God's ways are bigger than anyone of us, and His purposes are far bigger and out of view than we can see. Just because something doesn't make sense humanly speaking, doesn't mean God dropped the ball. A sweet sister in Christ wowed me with her faith this week. She has experienced an enormous amount of pain and still praises Jesus. She knows that God is in control of everything and has a plan far better than anyone could imagine. I thought about the 'peace that passes all understanding' as she was speaking. God's peace is incomprehensible, but oh so wonderful. If your don't have the peace only God gives I pray you will find the Jesus that I love.

3) I have a husband that loves me and loves the Lord. Chad, I love you baby...and am so proud of you. Our children are truly blessed with a wonderful daddy.

I hope you all have a blessed holiday weekend. Cherish every moment with your family. I just heard of the tragedy that happened in the Stephen Curtis Chapman home. Lets cover this family with our prayers. Love to you all.

Teething Times Two!

2008-05-20T09:21:00.004-04:00

I never really thought I would have two babies teething at the same time. Nathan is no doubt cutting teeth this week--very cranky, mean to his brother, low grade fever, and constantly chewing on his fingers. Poor guy. I know the Lord designed us to cut teeth in babyhood because adults wouldn't tolerate it very well:) And Cameron, well, I think he may be starting the teething process. I'm very sad he may be starting this early...wasn't he born last week?! No bumps on his gums yet, but he is very slobbery and sucks on his hands alot.

Chad and I are toying with the idea of going to the beach over Memorial Day. Crazy, I know. I have a feeling the beach will be packed. Chad reminded me last week that Nathan has never seen the ocean. He isn't two yet people.(grin) Seriously, I didn't see the ocean until I was in high school! But Chad's argument was convincing-he made Nate out to be some poor deprived little boy:) I love the fact that my boys could live outside. That would suit them fine. Except for ticks...Chad brought one inside a few days ago...I still have the creepy crawlies.

I better get going...Nate will be up soon. Laundry awaits. Have a blessed week.

"She thinks my tractor's sexy"...

2008-05-16T20:30:00.007-04:00

So ladies, what do you think of my man? Hot, right? This is Chad's new mower. He is very proud of this sweet piece of machinery. And yes Baby, I think you're sexy.

On to other things. We had a good day today. Moms meeting at Starbucks in the morning and then two of the moms organizing the group came to my house for lunch and a bit of planning for future group events. These ladies are very nice and fun to be around. Hannah, a sweet baby about a year old and two year old Ty had fun with Nate this afternoon. Nate, being the great host that he is, bailed on his friends and took a nap. I felt sorry for the other little ones, as they needed naps too but couldn't go to sleep in a strange place.

Wednesday afternoon Nathan played at the Children's Museum. He had a blast playing with Ty. Here is a picture of the two of them in the bathtub full of plastic balls. What sweet boys:)

Cameron milestones:

1) Trying to sit up alone

2) Interacting more with mommy--cooing, laughing. Developing a very sweet disposition.

3) Sleeps through night (has been for a couple weeks) Mama very happy!

I've propped Cameron up with the boppy and blankets
so he feels like a big boy when he plays with his toys.

He seemed to like it. Doesn't he look like a little man?

Growing so fast... getting fat!

Have a great weekend! Love to you all:)

Good Times

2008-05-09T14:22:00.010-04:00

Shhh, it's naptime. I have a million other things I could be doing instead of posting, but this is so relaxing. Heather, Missy, and I had a great visit. I know the kids had fun, we wore them out. Above is a picture of all six of them at the park. Aren't they cute? Thanks for coming girls. It's always fun being together. I sure did get worn out! It took me two days to recover from our partying ( staying up til midnight, watching movies, eating sweets, and drinking way too much caffeine:)

Today started out wet and then the sun came out. Yeah! Nathan has been begging to go 'side' all morning. I let him play on the deck but not in the grass. We may go on a walk or to the park when Daddy gets home.

In other news, Cameron was dropped today. Poor little guy. His safe world turned upside down, no thanks to his big brother. I had laid Cameron down on a blanket on the couch, turned my back for a second to throw a diaper in the trash, and rushed back into the room when I heard a crash and then Cameron howling. Nathan was looking on as his brother was on the floor crying. Thank God, Cameron is ok. His pupils are equal, round, reactive to light. He was scared more than anything. His mama was scared too! Looking back, the only scenario that makes sense is that Nathan tried to pick Cameron up, he turned and dropped him on the floor. Well I guess so! Cameron is half Nathan's entire weight! Guess I can't blame Nate...Cameron does look like a fun baby doll to play with...Cameron probably wanted to swing and Nate was going to help him out:)

I hope all you Mamas out there have a wonderful Mother's Day. Make memories with your little ones that will last a lifetime. Mothering is hard work--pat yourselves on the back. (and eat some extra calories, you have my permission:)

Here are a few pictures of the kids this week.

Rub a dub dub, three men in
the tub. (that's bath foam on
their heads--don't they look
like little cupcakes?) left to
right: Nathan B., Ian and
Nathan G.

Emma, Bella, and Nathan B.
Nathan is giving Bella love.
Not sure she is down with
that! Good girl, Bell. Boys
are yucky.

Emma and Cameron.
Such a little mama!

Life in NC...

2008-05-03T21:53:00.004-04:00

Do I need to tell you just how much I despise these creatures? I have the creepy crawlies just thinking about them. Well, we have one! Yes, a yucky snake lives in our woods. Here's how it went down...

Chad was clearing brush in the wooded area behind our house this afternoon. Cameron was napping, Nate was outside with his daddy, and I brought a book to read in the beautiful outdoors. On our way back to the house a snake was in the path. It was scarred and very still. My sweet husband wanted to catch it so 'Nate could see the snake'. This snake was pretty small and looked like a harmless garter snake. Chad grabbed it by the tail as it attempted an escape. Then the snake bit him! Well, duh. He did grab the little thing by the tail! What surprised Chad was that the snake had fangs...apparently garter snakes only 'gum' when they try to bite and it doesn't hurt. I couldn't tell you since I've never tried to catch a snake (and don't plan on it), but that's what Chad said.

We had to go inside and look up snakes on the internet to make sure it wasn't poisonous. We concluded it was a non-poisonous black racer. Here is a picture. And yes, that snake is still loose in our woods.

Oh, I almost forgot. Chad had another dangerous episode in walmart tonight. We purchased a patio set for our deck. Chad was going to get the box down--can't be that heavy, right? We almost had it and then it landed on Chad's head on the way down! Poor guy. Afterwards we noted the 'team lift' warning on the box. It weighed 250 lbs.

Hope this next week is a little less dangerous since Heather and Missy are visiting at our house. Can hardly wait to see them! And Honey, glad you're still with us. Love you.

Honey...Help!!!

2008-04-24T10:14:00.002-04:00

This morning started like any other. The boys were on the brink of starvation, me still in my jammies, Nathan dressed and playing, and Cameron just beginning to eat. About this time Chad calls and asks if the trash is out to the road. Of course it is not, and since we missed trash pickup last week, it had to get out. So I throw shoes on and head out, closing the door behind me so Nate doesn't follow. Surely it won't take but a minute to take the can to the road. Right?

Now keep in mind Nathan hasn't had breakfast and Cameron was rudely interrupted at the beginning of his breakfast. Two very unhappy little boys. As I'm walking back to the house I realize I shut the door and locked the kids inside. No phone, no keys, in my pj's, and did I mention my hair looked like I stuck my finger in a socket! So I hurry to the back door to confirm my suspicions. Yep, door locked and Cameron crying. Poor thing! Nathan was ok, just playing in the kitchen.

I headed to the neighbors and called Chad. Honey...Help! Now, Chad works about 20 minutes away from home. So I stood on the deck and talked to Nate through the windows in the dining room. He didn't know what to do. Our neighbor is a nice grandpa and former marine. He came over and tried to help me get into the house, but of course I had locked every window and door. He offered to break a window for me if I needed to get to the boys quickly. I thanked him and continued to watch them from the window.

Chad came home in record time (he told me later he sped, used his flashers, and ran a red light to save the day). Way to go, Honey! The boys were fine. Nathan was a bit upset-he asked for a cookie through his tears. Maybe cookies aren't the best breakfast but I felt it was the least I could do for the little fella. Cameron ate his breakfast too. Things were all better. Later in the day I took the boys to the mall and the park. Nathan had a blast:) It was a beautiful day.

Hope you all have a great Friday.

PS The garbage truck never came today...isn't that ironic?

Our God Is So Big!

2008-04-21T15:57:00.003-04:00

I have been blessed this week and its only Monday! Here's the story. Last week I was at the grocery store with the boys picking up a few sale items. I'm at the van loading my goodies and children when a lady in an SUV pulls up next to me. She noticed me in the store with the boys and wanted to know if I would be interested in a mom's group. Well, yeah.

If anyone knows me very well then you understand how hard it is for me to be social at times. Not all the time, just in very new and unfamiliar situations I tend to back off a little. A habit I'm trying to break. This morning we met at a coffee house for a meet and greet session. Six ladies showed up and we had a good visit. The group reminded me of the way MOPS operates. Dues, play dates, moms nights, etc. I may insist on name tags though...I'm terrible with names.

I have said that to say this: my God is huge! He knew I needed some moms to hang out with. He knew I needed to get out of my self pity and realize I'm not the only stay at home mom in Rocky Mount. Isn't it great that God cares about the little things in our lives? The neat thing is He doesn't see our lives as insignificant. He cares so much He sent Jesus! Praise the Lord.

'Radical'

2008-04-20T14:43:00.003-04:00

I'm sure we've all been here. Someone gives a testimony about how God is working in their lives. Immediately we may feel they are making us look bad. 'Really, do they have to be this radical?' We each know someone who takes their faith 'just a little too far'. Of course this is not true. I think we all know that (myself included), but our sin nature creeps in. Doubt and fear of rejection come crowding in and rob us of the opportunity to share Christ with another person. Come now, lets be honest. I have no one to blame but me. Witnessing is the hardest thing to do. But we are commanded as believers to be lights to a dark world.

In our Sunday School, a man named Chuck shares each week about the awesome ways God is working in his life. Chuck has a drug/alcohol history. He acknowledges his responibility in how it tore his family apart. He has a wife and son. He and his wife are separated, but he is faithful to her and continues to pray for her and wear his wedding band. I don't know if reconciliation will happen for this family ( I don't believe his wife is saved), but I do know we serve an amazing God. He can heal any situation.

A few years ago Chuck turned his life around for Jesus. We had a revival at our church in January, and since then he has been unstoppable! Friends of his past are amazed at the change and he has been able to lead some of them to Christ. Chuck is real. He doesn't live out his faith in church only. He lives and works for Jesus. He is a simple man, doesn't dress fancy, talk fancy, or play a part. He simply loves Jesus. The Lord blesses his obedience.

I find myself sitting in Sunday school smiling and wanting to be 'radical' too. By the way, Chuck himself was the one who said he was 'radical'. This morning he told the class how God led him to six people who needed salvation this week. All six were strangers and all six accepted Jesus as their Lord and Savior. Praise the Lord!

As Christians we over complicate it. The Lord made it so simple to be saved. We have the Good News. Lets share it with a world dying and going to a lost eternity!

Have a great week. I pray the Lord will send each one of us an opportunity to share the Gospel this week.

Check out my Slide Show!

2008-04-20T14:38:00.001-04:00

I'm not a barber!

2008-04-16T13:43:00.004-04:00

OK, so here it is...Sunday came and I found myself critiquing Chad's hair. (Keep in mind that I cut it.) It is not pretty. Soooo uneven if you really look. I could hardly stand it and repeatedly asked Chad if I could "fix" it. He said "No, I like it". Yeah right. Normal people may take that as a 'thanks you've done enough.' Not Chad. It truly doesn't bother him to be a little uneven. And, no, I'm not out of the clear. He still wants me to cut his hair. In fact, he said I could try a different style if I wanted. WHAT!! I obviously don't have this 'style' down yet.
Hope I could make you laugh...anyone cut hair? for cheap? ok, for nothing?

I hope everyone is having a great week. I have a ton to do while the boys are sleeping. Catch you later.

Haircuts and lovies

2008-04-12T22:23:00.007-04:00

I know what you're thinking, and no, Cameron didn't get a haircut. His daddy did. I finally let Chad get a pair of hair clippers. I can't say I was thrilled with the idea...cutting hair isn't my thing, in fact I've never cut hair before now. But this is a way I can justify spending a small fortune on my hair cuts and highlights. Since tomorrow is Sunday and my sweet husband looks like a fuzzy bear we gave it a try. Chad walked me through the process and I think we did alright. I posted some pics for fun.

Nathan is so funny. I'm sure we are all familiar with 'lovies'. You know, the one object the child cannot live without, no matter what. For most children a favorite stuffed toy or blanket serves as their lovie. Nathan's lovie is his beloved sippy cup. He hugs it, sleeps with it, and is always asking for 'joose'.(juice:) Yes, I know we shouldn't let Nate go to bed with his cup, but since its only water Chad and I think it's a small sacrifice to change his bed. Most mornings I find him soaked through his diaper and very happy, asking for 'joose'.

After haircut...then stylin' with gel.
Sorry girls, he's mine!

Wow, that's alot of hair!

Nathan and his 'lovie'.

You didn't think I'd leave
Cameron out, did you?

How Embarrassing

2008-04-11T09:13:00.003-04:00

So this morning started out like any other...until the phone man arrived. I was thrilled he came so early-9am, but not so thrilled when he said we needed to locate the double jack in the house. He seemed to remember it being in my bedroom. Oh NO! The room looks like a hurricane hit. I have papers, boxes, underwear-you name it- in plain view. To make matters worse, we had to move the unmade bed to get to the jack. Ugh. The good news is that we now have DSL and a home phone. I've never had a home phone before now. We have always used our cell phones. I feel we have finally settled down now that we have a phone:) I hope everyone is having a great day. I better wrap this up-Nathan is hanging on me like a monkey in a tree. Love to you all.

PS
I didn't have a shower yet either! Poor man, he probably thought this woman is in over her head:)

Beautiful Day

2008-04-10T19:37:00.005-04:00

Two children in bed + one husband working late = a very excited mommy! Yeah! I finally get to update...someone told me today I wasn't posting enough (you know who you are, grr). Well, I guess she's right so here goes.

My house is slowly but surely getting to picture point. Sorry it's taken so long...I have limited time to organize without my little "helper". I use the term very loosely, and any one with a 20 month old will understand. Nathan's idea of helping mommy is completely destroying her currant project, no matter what it may be. A huge pile of toys or mommy's box? In his mind it is obvious which one will be the most fun. Rugrat, I think he likes to see my reaction.

I have a question. What is it about babies that the minute-no second-you put a new outfit on them they puke? Not spit up. Puke. Every stinking time. Just had to get that off my chest. My sweet bundle of joy has developed that talent lately.

It was a beautiful day today. Sunny and warm. Thank You, Lord. I was getting depressed with all the rain we have had. We played outside, I tried to weed the landscaping in the front yard (Cameron was on my chest and he didn't appreciate moving too much, so we scrapped that idea.) Our neighbor's granddaughter is 6 yrs old and a hoot. She loves to play with Nathan and he thinks it's grand to have a playmate. This little girl will talk your ear off and she knows a little about everything...well, she thinks she does anyway. I took the boys and her for a walk this afternoon. She rode her bike and I pushed Nate and Cameron. I wore her out! She asked a few times to turn around but I kept on going. She should sleep great tonight.

Well, that's all for now. Chad will be home soon and I need to fix dinner. TTFN.

Casting Crowns

2008-04-01T08:01:00.003-04:00

Chad and I went to the Casting Crowns concert in Raleigh Sunday evening--and loved it! There was a spirit of worship in the arena that was palpable. The sight of thousands of my brothers and sisters in Christ praising Jesus was amazing. I think the one thing that made the difference was Casting Crowns themselves. Near the end of the concert they took time and prayed-all six of them-for needs in the arena. One would lift up the marriages represented, another prayed for moms, another for the ministries there, etc. Very moving. CC was my favorite band before, but now I have a new respect for them. They are real. You can tell they love Jesus.

We left the kids with a sitter for the evening. It worked out well. She did a good job. Cameron took a bottle like a little pro. I was nervous leaving since Raleigh is an hour drive.

I have no more news right now. I can hear Nathan waking up...I hope you all have a great day. It's raining here- for the third day in a row. God knows we need the rain--because of the drought and to wash the pine pollen away! Talk to you all later.

Drumroll please!

2008-03-29T20:31:00.005-04:00

Hello everyone. Alot has been going on in our lives the past couple of weeks. Since my last post we have closed on our house, moved in, and transferred our things in storage from Shelby to Rocky Mount. We were in Shelby over Easter weekend and had a good time with our friends there.

Please bear with me as photos of the house are coming...just not in the next day or two. Chad may think I'm crazy, but I want you all to see the house without the clutter. Speaking of photos, we were at the portrait studio this afternoon to get the boys pictures, and thanks to modern technology I can share them with you. How cool is that? Cameron is now 2 months old and Nate is 18 1/2 months. Can hardly believe Nathan smiled for one picture--and sat still too!

Oh, I almost forgot to mention a very important tidbit...Cameron now takes a pacifier and will take a bottle if absolutely necessary. I'm very relieved. This means Chad and I are able to go to the Casting Crowns concert. Yeah! They are my favorite Christian group.

Love to you all.

Cameron is growing like a weed

2008-03-18T21:58:00.005-04:00

Cameron - 4 Weeks

Cameron - 7 Weeks

He sure is growing fast! We love our little chubby baby:)

Closings, Kids, and Chaos...

2008-03-18T20:54:00.002-04:00

I'll just say it. Yesterday was a bad day. Nathan was a bit grouchy-teething is no fun. For those of you who are familiar with Nate he normally has a very predictable schedule. Naptime is always after lunch, about 12:30 or 1:00. Lets just say I was up in his room two times rocking, reading, and giving him medicine for his teeth. Poor guy.

During the times Nate wasn't whining Cameron kicked it up a notch. Such a good natured baby most of the time, he caught his mama off guard. By the end of the day I was sure they were conspiring against me, for sometimes they 'played' a symphony just for me.

And to top it off, we had a photo session scheduled for the evening at sears. Chad and I knew it wasn't going to work when the photographer accidently dropped a tin can on top of Nathan's head! I admit I laughed. Sure, I made sure he was ok, but I couldn't help but laugh after the day we had. The poor girl was beside herself. Needless to say we had to reschedule the appointment

As it happens, our closing on our house is delayed again. God knows why and when. I think this is a lesson in trust for me. Please remember me in prayer. Those around me have been saying how flexible I am. But they don't see my heart. To be honest, I'm a bit tired of being flexible:)

OK, enough complaining! I really am blessed. I have a wonderful family, great friends, and a loving church. Nate discovered the moon on our walk this past week. They sure do grow up fast. He kept pointing up to the sky. We realized he saw the moon and told him what it was. The rest of the way home he pointed and said "moom". So cute. I am blessed to be a mother to two sweet little boys. Cameron is getting very fat. Sometimes I think he will never stop eating. I'll post two pictures to contrast just how big he is now.

I hope everyone has a blessed week. Happy Easter:) May we always remember why we celebrate. Jesus is risen! Praise the Lord we have a way to escape eternal damnation through Jesus Christ our Savior.

Oh Nathan

2008-03-07T19:42:00.006-05:00

Nathan decided to splash and play in a puddle at the playground while mommy wasn't paying attention. Before I knew it he was covered in mud. Oh the joy of having little dirty boys! It sure is fun. Even though his pants are probably ruined we had a blast playing this week.

Well, our closing date for our house has been pushed back, for the second time. I know God has a reason for us not moving in yet. Case and point- it is raining buckets outside as I sit here. It has been raining all day and is supposed to continue into tomorrow. And we were planning on moving tomorrow! The Lord new it would be a soggy, icky day to move. Not to mention my clean carpets:)

Will keep you all posted when we get moved in. Then my friends can come from Shelby to visit! Here's a shout out to Heather and Missy--love you both and miss you lots!

Changes...

2008-02-25T10:24:00.005-05:00

Wow! So much is going on in our lives at this moment. Baby Cameron is 4 weeks old today. He is getting very fat:) We just finished a fun visit with Chad's mom. Nathan had a wonderful time with his Grammy.

We found a house. Finally! It is very nice and will be perfect for our family. We'll live in a nice neighborhood on a culdesac. Chad really likes the privacy and big yard. As the boys get older the big yard will be a huge plus. I'll have to post pictures after we move in. This weekend is the big move. I have a lot to do before then. It is a blessing this house is only a few miles from where we live now, since moving will be much easier.Andrew, Chad's brother, is coming into town from AZ this weekend. He didn't know we would be moving when he planned to come- worked out well since we could use the help. Also, we found out that quite a few families from our church live close to us. What a blessing! God is so good.

Our church is going through a study called 'Seeking Him'- a personal/group study focused on personal revival. So far it is very good. Probes to the heart of the matter, painful at times but needed.

I hope everyone is doing great. If you're like me you can hardly wait until Spring arrives. Nathan and I are getting cabin fever. Have a great week.

My angels

2008-02-09T13:31:00.001-05:00

Happenings...

2008-02-09T12:58:00.000-05:00

It has been a long time since my last post...so, lets see...where to begin? Nate has been sick the past few days. Snot, chest crud, teething, etc. He woke up yesterday morning asking for tylenol. My 18 month old is a junkie already!

Chad's mom is here to visit from STL. We are having a great time. Her birthday is the 15th, and we are thrilled she will be here to celebrate. She'll be 29...again!

Cameron, so different from Nate, has already gained a pound above birth weight. He is now 8lb 4oz at 2 weeks old. What a little piggy! He sleeps very good. Normally I only feed him twice a night, around 2am and 6am. Yes, I consider 6am night time for all of you early risers!

Oh, I almost forgot. We found a house! Yeah! As you may be able to tell, I am super excited. I'll publish pics of the house and property. It sits on an acre, has a deck, 3 bed, 2 bath, with the option to expand the second floor as we need the space. Lord willing, we will be able to move in the end of the month.

Below is a slide show of my babies. Enjoy!

Welcome Cameron!

2008-01-29T21:09:00.000-05:00

He's here! Cameron Alexander Bruza arrived on Friday morning at 7:11. He weighed in at 7 lbs 4 oz. and is 19 1/2 in. long. Chad and I feel blessed, overwhelmed, and overjoyed to have him as a part of our family. We pray God will grow us into the parents He wants us to be. It sure does change your perspective when your responsible for two little hearts. We pray our children will grow up to love Jesus with all their hearts.

As you can guess, there are alot of changes in our house now. Nathan loves the baby...well, he kisses, hugs, and says "baby". Nathan has had some issues with tantrums, sleeping through the night, and napping. I know he needs time to adjust, but until then pray for this mama.

No, for those of you who were wondering, we don't know where he got all that hair...Chad and I didn't have near that much hair. It sure does have a mind of its own! Chad is already talking about a haircut...of course I said no. I hope everyone has a wonderful week. We are getting ready to have Grammy here for a visit. We are very excited-but not as excited as she is!

Thoughts...

2008-01-22T14:19:00.000-05:00

Any of you experienced that God's ways aren't our ways? He has definately been teaching me that I cannot do anything on my own. Becoming the wife, mother, and friend He wants me to be requires the Lord's daily involvment in my life. The fact that the God of the Universe wants to know me personally is a bit overwhelming at times. I know He wants to teach me contentment. Contentment in every area, but most recently contentment in where He has put me--in a spacious apartment with my sweet husband and baby boy(soon to be boys:). Yes, I'm still very pregnant. Well I guess that is all for now...until next time I hope everyone has a wonderful week.

Catching up

2008-01-09T10:03:00.000-05:00

Hello to everyone! It has been a while since my last post. I don't know about you all, but I am relieved the chaos of the holidays are behind us at last. Since Thanksgiving our little man, Nathan, has been mastering the art of walking. Well, now he has mastered running! He loves going to the park and sliding down the big twisty slide- by himself! Chad stays at the top and I am posted at the bottom. Poor thing, he cries when its time to leave. This mama has a hard time keeping up alot of the time. I'm sure it has nothing to do with being very pregnant:)

This year has started off great. We are having revival meetings at our church this and next week. The meetings are wonderful, really opening my eyes to vital areas I need to work on in my relationship with the Lord. Chad and I are learning principles for raising a godly family and developing a Christ like marriage.

Also, over Christmas, Chad's cousins Rebekah and Jessica became engaged. Congrats to Dayton and Rebekah, and Rob and Jess. Both weddings are scheduled for this summer.

Just now Nathan jabbered something he thought was very important and he thought I understood every word...so I thought that bit of wisdom belonged on the blog (grin).

There is not much else to say. We are hoping this new little one will make an appearance soon. Well, I guess I'm a bit more anxious than my husband:) I will keep you all posted when our new addition finally arrives...I'm sure I've been pregnant forever!

A New Year is Upon Us

2007-12-26T13:19:00.000-05:00

I hope everyone has had a great Christmas. Ours was wonderful! We read the Christmas story as a family and had a wonderful time opening gifts on Christmas morning. I made a breakfast casserole and cinnamon rolls. mmm, tasty! We went to our Aunt's home in the afternoon for Christmas dinner. It was scrumptious! The group played a game and then watched a movie projected on the wall-great fun:)
I hope all of you were able to reflect on the real reason we celebrate Christmas- the birth of Christ. It is meaningless unless our Saviour is at the center of it all. May you have a wonderful rest of 2007.

Above is a picture of Nathan and Ian during our weekend in Shelby over Christmas. The boys loved the dancing and singing penguins!

I also need to give a quick shout out to Bella Smith. She is 1yr old today and battling a double ear infection. Poor baby, get better soon! Happy Birthday Bella:)